<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:googleplay="http://www.google.com/schemas/play-podcasts/1.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Aspiring Rich Wine Aunt]]></title><description><![CDATA[For women who do serious work and have unserious pleasures, and want to build a life entirely on their own terms. Essays, guides, and honest takes on working for yourself, why women's stories are worth billions, and a life built across two coasts.]]></description><link>https://aspiringrichwineaunt.khrodgers.com</link><image><url>https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!Ez2n!,w_256,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F8ec3ddaa-434f-434a-8cb2-e41e92586499_320x320.png</url><title>Aspiring Rich Wine Aunt</title><link>https://aspiringrichwineaunt.khrodgers.com</link></image><generator>Substack</generator><lastBuildDate>Tue, 07 Apr 2026 17:16:57 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://aspiringrichwineaunt.khrodgers.com/feed" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><copyright><![CDATA[Kathleen Rodgers]]></copyright><language><![CDATA[en]]></language><webMaster><![CDATA[khrodgers@substack.com]]></webMaster><itunes:owner><itunes:email><![CDATA[khrodgers@substack.com]]></itunes:email><itunes:name><![CDATA[Kathleen Rodgers]]></itunes:name></itunes:owner><itunes:author><![CDATA[Kathleen Rodgers]]></itunes:author><googleplay:owner><![CDATA[khrodgers@substack.com]]></googleplay:owner><googleplay:email><![CDATA[khrodgers@substack.com]]></googleplay:email><googleplay:author><![CDATA[Kathleen Rodgers]]></googleplay:author><itunes:block><![CDATA[Yes]]></itunes:block><item><title><![CDATA[Why I Want Sinners to Win Tonight]]></title><description><![CDATA[On original stories, filmmaker ownership, and why the Oscars need a course correction.]]></description><link>https://aspiringrichwineaunt.khrodgers.com/p/why-i-want-sinners-to-win-tonight</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://aspiringrichwineaunt.khrodgers.com/p/why-i-want-sinners-to-win-tonight</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Kathleen Rodgers]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 15 Mar 2026 18:42:29 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!MiLu!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F582c970e-16a6-451a-9dfa-e15c60e38897_1100x733.jpeg" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tonight&#8217;s Best Picture race is a referendum on what kind of films Hollywood still has the courage to make.</p><p><strong>I work in awards campaigns. I didn&#8217;t work on </strong><em><strong>Sinners</strong></em><strong>. And I really, really hope it wins.</strong></p><p>Not just because it&#8217;s a great film, though it is. But because of what a win would signal for the future of this industry.</p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!MiLu!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F582c970e-16a6-451a-9dfa-e15c60e38897_1100x733.jpeg" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!MiLu!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F582c970e-16a6-451a-9dfa-e15c60e38897_1100x733.jpeg 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!MiLu!,w_848,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F582c970e-16a6-451a-9dfa-e15c60e38897_1100x733.jpeg 848w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!MiLu!,w_1272,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F582c970e-16a6-451a-9dfa-e15c60e38897_1100x733.jpeg 1272w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!MiLu!,w_1456,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F582c970e-16a6-451a-9dfa-e15c60e38897_1100x733.jpeg 1456w" sizes="100vw"><img src="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!MiLu!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F582c970e-16a6-451a-9dfa-e15c60e38897_1100x733.jpeg" width="1100" height="733" data-attrs="{&quot;src&quot;:&quot;https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/582c970e-16a6-451a-9dfa-e15c60e38897_1100x733.jpeg&quot;,&quot;srcNoWatermark&quot;:null,&quot;fullscreen&quot;:null,&quot;imageSize&quot;:null,&quot;height&quot;:733,&quot;width&quot;:1100,&quot;resizeWidth&quot;:null,&quot;bytes&quot;:null,&quot;alt&quot;:&quot;Sinners' review: Michael B. 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Jordan dances with the devil : NPR" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!MiLu!,w_424,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F582c970e-16a6-451a-9dfa-e15c60e38897_1100x733.jpeg 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!MiLu!,w_848,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F582c970e-16a6-451a-9dfa-e15c60e38897_1100x733.jpeg 848w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!MiLu!,w_1272,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F582c970e-16a6-451a-9dfa-e15c60e38897_1100x733.jpeg 1272w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!MiLu!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F582c970e-16a6-451a-9dfa-e15c60e38897_1100x733.jpeg 1456w" sizes="100vw" fetchpriority="high"></picture><div class="image-link-expand"><div class="pencraft pc-display-flex pc-gap-8 pc-reset"><button tabindex="0" type="button" class="pencraft pc-reset pencraft icon-container restack-image"><svg role="img" width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 20 20" fill="none" stroke-width="1.5" stroke="var(--color-fg-primary)" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg"><g><title></title><path d="M2.53001 7.81595C3.49179 4.73911 6.43281 2.5 9.91173 2.5C13.1684 2.5 15.9537 4.46214 17.0852 7.23684L17.6179 8.67647M17.6179 8.67647L18.5002 4.26471M17.6179 8.67647L13.6473 6.91176M17.4995 12.1841C16.5378 15.2609 13.5967 17.5 10.1178 17.5C6.86118 17.5 4.07589 15.5379 2.94432 12.7632L2.41165 11.3235M2.41165 11.3235L1.5293 15.7353M2.41165 11.3235L6.38224 13.0882"></path></g></svg></button><button tabindex="0" type="button" class="pencraft pc-reset pencraft icon-container view-image"><svg xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 24 24" fill="none" stroke="currentColor" stroke-width="2" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" class="lucide lucide-maximize2 lucide-maximize-2"><polyline points="15 3 21 3 21 9"></polyline><polyline points="9 21 3 21 3 15"></polyline><line x1="21" x2="14" y1="3" y2="10"></line><line x1="3" x2="10" y1="21" y2="14"></line></svg></button></div></div></div></a></figure></div><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://aspiringrichwineaunt.khrodgers.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe now&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://aspiringrichwineaunt.khrodgers.com/subscribe?"><span>Subscribe now</span></a></p><h3><strong>The Radical Act of an Original Story</strong></h3><p>Perhaps the most remarkable thing about <em>Sinners</em> is also the simplest: it&#8217;s an original story.</p><p>Not a sequel. Not a remake. Not an adaptation of a bestselling novel, a comic book, or a podcast. Just a film built from an idea.</p><p>That used to be the norm. But over the past two decades, Hollywood has steadily shifted toward existing intellectual property as the foundation of its business model. Today, only about a quarter of major studio films are based on original ideas. The rest are sequels, remakes, and adaptations&#8230; built on the logic that familiar is safer, easier to market, easier to justify to a corporate board.</p><p>Original films are harder to model. But they&#8217;re also where the most interesting storytelling tends to live.</p><h3><strong>People Actually Showed Up</strong></h3><p>Here&#8217;s the thing that keeps striking me: almost every non-industry person I&#8217;ve talked to this awards season has seen <em>Sinners</em>. In many cases, it&#8217;s the <em>only</em> Best Picture contender they&#8217;ve seen.</p><p>That shouldn&#8217;t be remarkable. But it is.</p><p>Over the past decade, the Oscars have drifted further and further from mainstream audiences. Many nominated films are critically admired but culturally invisible: respected within the industry, largely unseen by the public. <em>Sinners</em> became something closer to a cultural moment. People talked about it. Recommended it. Dragged their friends to see it.</p><p>A Best Picture win for <em>Sinners</em> would be a rare alignment between awards recognition and actual audience engagement. And the Oscars desperately need that alignment if they want to stay culturally relevant.</p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!vp5t!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F0236cff3-1db3-4b86-aa48-6a41a66c4d54_1296x730.jpeg" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!vp5t!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F0236cff3-1db3-4b86-aa48-6a41a66c4d54_1296x730.jpeg 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!vp5t!,w_848,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F0236cff3-1db3-4b86-aa48-6a41a66c4d54_1296x730.jpeg 848w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!vp5t!,w_1272,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F0236cff3-1db3-4b86-aa48-6a41a66c4d54_1296x730.jpeg 1272w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!vp5t!,w_1456,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F0236cff3-1db3-4b86-aa48-6a41a66c4d54_1296x730.jpeg 1456w" sizes="100vw"><img src="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!vp5t!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F0236cff3-1db3-4b86-aa48-6a41a66c4d54_1296x730.jpeg" width="1296" height="730" data-attrs="{&quot;src&quot;:&quot;https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/0236cff3-1db3-4b86-aa48-6a41a66c4d54_1296x730.jpeg&quot;,&quot;srcNoWatermark&quot;:null,&quot;fullscreen&quot;:null,&quot;imageSize&quot;:null,&quot;height&quot;:730,&quot;width&quot;:1296,&quot;resizeWidth&quot;:null,&quot;bytes&quot;:null,&quot;alt&quot;:&quot;Sinners' Review: Michael B. Jordan in Ryan Coogler's Juicy Horror&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:null,&quot;type&quot;:null,&quot;href&quot;:null,&quot;belowTheFold&quot;:true,&quot;topImage&quot;:false,&quot;internalRedirect&quot;:null,&quot;isProcessing&quot;:false,&quot;align&quot;:null,&quot;offset&quot;:false}" class="sizing-normal" alt="Sinners' Review: Michael B. Jordan in Ryan Coogler's Juicy Horror" title="Sinners' Review: Michael B. 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Films most likely to win arrive late in the year, carefully timed to stay fresh in voters&#8217; minds. <em>Sinners</em> premiered last April&#8212;a timeline that would normally place it at a serious disadvantage.</p><p>And yet here we are.</p><p>If it wins tonight, it will challenge another quiet assumption about how this industry works: that awards success can only be engineered through release timing and careful campaign mechanics. These assumptions and mechanics pay my bills, but we need to remember that sometimes cultural momentum&#8212;audiences discovering a film, championing it, refusing to let it fade&#8212;matters just as much.</p><h3><strong>Culture, Folklore, and the Power of Story</strong></h3><p>The part of <em>Sinners</em> that I keep thinking about most isn&#8217;t the horror. It&#8217;s the history.</p><p>The film draws deeply from the blues and the cultural life of Black communities in the American South&#8212;the juke joints, the music, the gathering spaces that served as safe havens during a period defined by segregation and racial violence. It even includes a nod to the lesser-known role of Chinese grocers in the Mississippi Delta, a real and fascinating piece of that region&#8217;s social history that almost never gets told.</p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!e9rw!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F8e4305bf-48ad-40a4-9de2-fdc31fc064e5_1400x700.jpeg" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!e9rw!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F8e4305bf-48ad-40a4-9de2-fdc31fc064e5_1400x700.jpeg 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!e9rw!,w_848,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F8e4305bf-48ad-40a4-9de2-fdc31fc064e5_1400x700.jpeg 848w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!e9rw!,w_1272,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F8e4305bf-48ad-40a4-9de2-fdc31fc064e5_1400x700.jpeg 1272w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!e9rw!,w_1456,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F8e4305bf-48ad-40a4-9de2-fdc31fc064e5_1400x700.jpeg 1456w" sizes="100vw"><img src="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!e9rw!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F8e4305bf-48ad-40a4-9de2-fdc31fc064e5_1400x700.jpeg" width="1400" height="700" data-attrs="{&quot;src&quot;:&quot;https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/8e4305bf-48ad-40a4-9de2-fdc31fc064e5_1400x700.jpeg&quot;,&quot;srcNoWatermark&quot;:null,&quot;fullscreen&quot;:null,&quot;imageSize&quot;:null,&quot;height&quot;:700,&quot;width&quot;:1400,&quot;resizeWidth&quot;:null,&quot;bytes&quot;:null,&quot;alt&quot;:&quot;Review: 'Sinners' Takes Us to Church - Black Nerd Problems&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:null,&quot;type&quot;:null,&quot;href&quot;:null,&quot;belowTheFold&quot;:true,&quot;topImage&quot;:false,&quot;internalRedirect&quot;:null,&quot;isProcessing&quot;:false,&quot;align&quot;:null,&quot;offset&quot;:false}" class="sizing-normal" alt="Review: 'Sinners' Takes Us to Church - Black Nerd Problems" title="Review: 'Sinners' Takes Us to Church - Black Nerd Problems" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!e9rw!,w_424,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F8e4305bf-48ad-40a4-9de2-fdc31fc064e5_1400x700.jpeg 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!e9rw!,w_848,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F8e4305bf-48ad-40a4-9de2-fdc31fc064e5_1400x700.jpeg 848w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!e9rw!,w_1272,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F8e4305bf-48ad-40a4-9de2-fdc31fc064e5_1400x700.jpeg 1272w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!e9rw!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F8e4305bf-48ad-40a4-9de2-fdc31fc064e5_1400x700.jpeg 1456w" sizes="100vw" loading="lazy"></picture><div class="image-link-expand"><div class="pencraft pc-display-flex pc-gap-8 pc-reset"><button tabindex="0" type="button" class="pencraft pc-reset pencraft icon-container restack-image"><svg role="img" width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 20 20" fill="none" stroke-width="1.5" stroke="var(--color-fg-primary)" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg"><g><title></title><path d="M2.53001 7.81595C3.49179 4.73911 6.43281 2.5 9.91173 2.5C13.1684 2.5 15.9537 4.46214 17.0852 7.23684L17.6179 8.67647M17.6179 8.67647L18.5002 4.26471M17.6179 8.67647L13.6473 6.91176M17.4995 12.1841C16.5378 15.2609 13.5967 17.5 10.1178 17.5C6.86118 17.5 4.07589 15.5379 2.94432 12.7632L2.41165 11.3235M2.41165 11.3235L1.5293 15.7353M2.41165 11.3235L6.38224 13.0882"></path></g></svg></button><button tabindex="0" type="button" class="pencraft pc-reset pencraft icon-container view-image"><svg xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 24 24" fill="none" stroke="currentColor" stroke-width="2" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" class="lucide lucide-maximize2 lucide-maximize-2"><polyline points="15 3 21 3 21 9"></polyline><polyline points="9 21 3 21 3 15"></polyline><line x1="21" x2="14" y1="3" y2="10"></line><line x1="3" x2="10" y1="21" y2="14"></line></svg></button></div></div></div></a></figure></div><p>And then there&#8217;s the central villain: an Irish vampire. Which isn&#8217;t just a horror trope. It&#8217;s allegory.</p><p>Irish immigrants in America were once marginalized outsiders who ultimately gained power through assimilation into whiteness. In <em>Sinners</em>, the vampire arrives drawn to the vitality of the culture he encounters, and what begins as fascination quickly becomes domination. Colonization. Cultural extraction. The repeated historical pattern of dominant groups entering spaces they didn&#8217;t build, taking from them, and destabilizing them in the process.</p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!zsB-!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F4b714036-6ec3-4618-8ce9-a7062ebd01c0_643x403.png" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!zsB-!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F4b714036-6ec3-4618-8ce9-a7062ebd01c0_643x403.png 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!zsB-!,w_848,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F4b714036-6ec3-4618-8ce9-a7062ebd01c0_643x403.png 848w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!zsB-!,w_1272,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F4b714036-6ec3-4618-8ce9-a7062ebd01c0_643x403.png 1272w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!zsB-!,w_1456,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F4b714036-6ec3-4618-8ce9-a7062ebd01c0_643x403.png 1456w" sizes="100vw"><img src="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!zsB-!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F4b714036-6ec3-4618-8ce9-a7062ebd01c0_643x403.png" width="643" height="403" data-attrs="{&quot;src&quot;:&quot;https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/4b714036-6ec3-4618-8ce9-a7062ebd01c0_643x403.png&quot;,&quot;srcNoWatermark&quot;:null,&quot;fullscreen&quot;:null,&quot;imageSize&quot;:null,&quot;height&quot;:403,&quot;width&quot;:643,&quot;resizeWidth&quot;:null,&quot;bytes&quot;:383616,&quot;alt&quot;:&quot;Sinners: Why Vampires Need to Be Invited Inside, Explained&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:null,&quot;type&quot;:&quot;image/png&quot;,&quot;href&quot;:null,&quot;belowTheFold&quot;:true,&quot;topImage&quot;:false,&quot;internalRedirect&quot;:null,&quot;isProcessing&quot;:false,&quot;align&quot;:null,&quot;offset&quot;:false}" class="sizing-normal" alt="Sinners: Why Vampires Need to Be Invited Inside, Explained" title="Sinners: Why Vampires Need to Be Invited Inside, Explained" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!zsB-!,w_424,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F4b714036-6ec3-4618-8ce9-a7062ebd01c0_643x403.png 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!zsB-!,w_848,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F4b714036-6ec3-4618-8ce9-a7062ebd01c0_643x403.png 848w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!zsB-!,w_1272,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F4b714036-6ec3-4618-8ce9-a7062ebd01c0_643x403.png 1272w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!zsB-!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F4b714036-6ec3-4618-8ce9-a7062ebd01c0_643x403.png 1456w" sizes="100vw" loading="lazy"></picture><div class="image-link-expand"><div class="pencraft pc-display-flex pc-gap-8 pc-reset"><button tabindex="0" type="button" class="pencraft pc-reset pencraft icon-container restack-image"><svg role="img" width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 20 20" fill="none" stroke-width="1.5" stroke="var(--color-fg-primary)" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg"><g><title></title><path d="M2.53001 7.81595C3.49179 4.73911 6.43281 2.5 9.91173 2.5C13.1684 2.5 15.9537 4.46214 17.0852 7.23684L17.6179 8.67647M17.6179 8.67647L18.5002 4.26471M17.6179 8.67647L13.6473 6.91176M17.4995 12.1841C16.5378 15.2609 13.5967 17.5 10.1178 17.5C6.86118 17.5 4.07589 15.5379 2.94432 12.7632L2.41165 11.3235M2.41165 11.3235L1.5293 15.7353M2.41165 11.3235L6.38224 13.0882"></path></g></svg></button><button tabindex="0" type="button" class="pencraft pc-reset pencraft icon-container view-image"><svg xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 24 24" fill="none" stroke="currentColor" stroke-width="2" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" class="lucide lucide-maximize2 lucide-maximize-2"><polyline points="15 3 21 3 21 9"></polyline><polyline points="9 21 3 21 3 15"></polyline><line x1="21" x2="14" y1="3" y2="10"></line><line x1="3" x2="10" y1="21" y2="14"></line></svg></button></div></div></div></a></figure></div><p><em>Sinners</em> doesn&#8217;t present any of this as a lecture. It embeds it inside genre storytelling: music, horror, folklore, performance. That&#8217;s what powerful cultural storytelling does. It turns history into narrative. It lets audiences experience political and historical truths emotionally, through story.</p><p>That&#8217;s the reason I work in this industry. Film and television are the only mediums that build empathy at scale. The more we see each other&#8212;really see each other&#8212;the more human we become.</p><h3><strong>The Ownership Question</strong></h3><p>The story behind <em>Sinners</em> is almost as important as the story on screen.</p><p>Ryan Coogler negotiated a deal with Warner Bros. that granted him significant creative control and long-term ownership rights over the film. In the modern studio system, that&#8217;s genuinely rare. And it matters because ownership determines who benefits from cultural success, not just today but decades from now.</p><p>As studios have consolidated and IP has become the central asset in entertainment, filmmakers have steadily lost leverage over the stories they create. Rights get centralized within corporations. Creative talent gets treated as contractors.</p><p>Coogler pushed in the opposite direction. And the result was one of the most culturally significant films of the year.</p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!a-hU!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fc91c4cd4-25f9-498b-be4f-30cbc82d30ce_6000x4000.jpeg" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!a-hU!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fc91c4cd4-25f9-498b-be4f-30cbc82d30ce_6000x4000.jpeg 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!a-hU!,w_848,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fc91c4cd4-25f9-498b-be4f-30cbc82d30ce_6000x4000.jpeg 848w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!a-hU!,w_1272,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fc91c4cd4-25f9-498b-be4f-30cbc82d30ce_6000x4000.jpeg 1272w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!a-hU!,w_1456,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fc91c4cd4-25f9-498b-be4f-30cbc82d30ce_6000x4000.jpeg 1456w" sizes="100vw"><img src="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!a-hU!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fc91c4cd4-25f9-498b-be4f-30cbc82d30ce_6000x4000.jpeg" width="1456" height="971" data-attrs="{&quot;src&quot;:&quot;https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/c91c4cd4-25f9-498b-be4f-30cbc82d30ce_6000x4000.jpeg&quot;,&quot;srcNoWatermark&quot;:null,&quot;fullscreen&quot;:null,&quot;imageSize&quot;:null,&quot;height&quot;:971,&quot;width&quot;:1456,&quot;resizeWidth&quot;:null,&quot;bytes&quot;:null,&quot;alt&quot;:&quot;Sinners' is just the latest proof: Ryan Coogler and Michael B. Jordan are  symbiotic : NPR&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:null,&quot;type&quot;:null,&quot;href&quot;:null,&quot;belowTheFold&quot;:true,&quot;topImage&quot;:false,&quot;internalRedirect&quot;:null,&quot;isProcessing&quot;:false,&quot;align&quot;:null,&quot;offset&quot;:false}" class="sizing-normal" alt="Sinners' is just the latest proof: Ryan Coogler and Michael B. Jordan are  symbiotic : NPR" title="Sinners' is just the latest proof: Ryan Coogler and Michael B. Jordan are  symbiotic : NPR" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!a-hU!,w_424,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fc91c4cd4-25f9-498b-be4f-30cbc82d30ce_6000x4000.jpeg 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!a-hU!,w_848,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fc91c4cd4-25f9-498b-be4f-30cbc82d30ce_6000x4000.jpeg 848w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!a-hU!,w_1272,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fc91c4cd4-25f9-498b-be4f-30cbc82d30ce_6000x4000.jpeg 1272w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!a-hU!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fc91c4cd4-25f9-498b-be4f-30cbc82d30ce_6000x4000.jpeg 1456w" sizes="100vw" loading="lazy"></picture><div class="image-link-expand"><div class="pencraft pc-display-flex pc-gap-8 pc-reset"><button tabindex="0" type="button" class="pencraft pc-reset pencraft icon-container restack-image"><svg role="img" width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 20 20" fill="none" stroke-width="1.5" stroke="var(--color-fg-primary)" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg"><g><title></title><path d="M2.53001 7.81595C3.49179 4.73911 6.43281 2.5 9.91173 2.5C13.1684 2.5 15.9537 4.46214 17.0852 7.23684L17.6179 8.67647M17.6179 8.67647L18.5002 4.26471M17.6179 8.67647L13.6473 6.91176M17.4995 12.1841C16.5378 15.2609 13.5967 17.5 10.1178 17.5C6.86118 17.5 4.07589 15.5379 2.94432 12.7632L2.41165 11.3235M2.41165 11.3235L1.5293 15.7353M2.41165 11.3235L6.38224 13.0882"></path></g></svg></button><button tabindex="0" type="button" class="pencraft pc-reset pencraft icon-container view-image"><svg xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 24 24" fill="none" stroke="currentColor" stroke-width="2" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" class="lucide lucide-maximize2 lucide-maximize-2"><polyline points="15 3 21 3 21 9"></polyline><polyline points="9 21 3 21 3 15"></polyline><line x1="21" x2="14" y1="3" y2="10"></line><line x1="3" x2="10" y1="21" y2="14"></line></svg></button></div></div></div></a></figure></div><h3><strong>A Word on </strong><em><strong>One Battle After Another</strong></em></h3><p>I&#8217;ll be honest: I didn&#8217;t love the other major contender in this race. I found it narratively unconvincing in ways that have been well-documented by people far more eloquent than me. I&#8217;ll leave it at that. What I&#8217;ll say is this: the contrast between the two films sharpens the point. One made me feel something, made me care enough to listen to interviews, google more about aspects of the history. The other didn&#8217;t.</p><p>Awards seasons are full of films the industry decides matter. Fewer are films that actually do.</p><h3><strong>What a Win Would Actually Signal</strong></h3><p><em>Sinners</em> did something rare: it captured critical recognition and genuine cultural momentum at the same time. Its historic 16 nominations reflect that. But if it wins Best Picture tonight, the significance goes beyond the trophy.</p><p>It would signal that original stories, made by filmmakers who actually own their work, for audiences who actually show up&#8230; those films can still win. And if they can still win, maybe more of them will get made.</p><p>In an industry increasingly shaped by corporate logic and franchise economics, that&#8217;s not a small thing.</p><p>That&#8217;s the whole thing.</p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!ezr1!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F4775bd8a-8feb-4569-bd60-67d9be2f48d2_1248x702.jpeg" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!ezr1!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F4775bd8a-8feb-4569-bd60-67d9be2f48d2_1248x702.jpeg 424w, 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Started]]></title><description><![CDATA[Why estimated taxes are the least sexy&#8212;and most important&#8212;part of working for yourself.]]></description><link>https://aspiringrichwineaunt.khrodgers.com/p/the-advice-that-saved-my-business</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://aspiringrichwineaunt.khrodgers.com/p/the-advice-that-saved-my-business</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Kathleen Rodgers]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 17 Feb 2026 16:07:02 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/188205165/336c4685251a14797e409e31c4d0eea1.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Before I ever worried about branding, clients, or scaling, I made one decision that quietly protected my business.</h3><p>Hi, I&#8217;m Kathleen,</p><p>and I&#8217;m here to share what 15 years working in entertainment and strategy, eight years of which have been self-employed, has taught me about business, work, and culture.</p><p><strong>Today we&#8217;re here to talk about the one piece of advice that has saved me thousands of dollars and probably many panic attacks and was the best piece of advice I got when I started working for myself eight years ago.</strong></p><p>It is unsexy, but it is the key to creating the foundation of a good business.</p><p>Drum roll, please.</p><p>Yes, we are here to talk about taxes.</p><p>The thing that nobody wants to talk about, but this time of year is incredibly important.</p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://aspiringrichwineaunt.khrodgers.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe now&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://aspiringrichwineaunt.khrodgers.com/subscribe?"><span>Subscribe now</span></a></p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" 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stroke-width="2" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" class="lucide lucide-maximize2 lucide-maximize-2"><polyline points="15 3 21 3 21 9"></polyline><polyline points="9 21 3 21 3 15"></polyline><line x1="21" x2="14" y1="3" y2="10"></line><line x1="3" x2="10" y1="21" y2="14"></line></svg></button></div></div></div></a></figure></div><p>When I first started working for myself &#8212; or was thinking about it &#8212; I met with several people that had been doing it longer than me.</p><p>One person gave me this piece of advice that I try to pass on to everybody as often as I can:</p><p><strong>Always pay your estimated taxes.</strong></p><p>At that point, I didn&#8217;t even know what estimated taxes were.</p><p>I was used to being a W-2 full-time employee where all of my taxes were handled by my company and HR.</p><p>And suddenly I was staring down the barrel of working for myself and having to handle every single aspect of running a business on my own.</p><p>It was overwhelming.<br>It was intimidating.</p><p>He told me that if you work for yourself, you have to pay estimated taxes to the government four times a year.</p><p>And if you don&#8217;t, there is a penalty &#8212; which I had no idea even was a thing.</p><p>Obviously, I knew that I would have to pay taxes at some point and in some way. But from the very beginning of working for myself, I did the thing that I&#8217;m about to share with you.</p><p>And it has saved not only thousands and thousands of dollars over the years, but so many panics, so many headaches, so many moments that I&#8217;ve seen other people walk through.</p><p>So let&#8217;s start with the basics.</p><h3>There are tax deadlines four times a year.</h3><p>If you work for yourself, you have to pay estimated taxes on these four deadlines:</p><ul><li><p>April 15th</p></li><li><p>June 15th</p></li><li><p>September 15th</p></li><li><p>January 15th</p></li></ul><p>Essentially, you pay estimated taxes for what you made in the quarter preceding the deadline.</p><p>So for April 15th, you&#8217;re paying estimated taxes on the money that you made from January through March.</p><p>There are many ways of calculating this. I would recommend talking to an accountant about it.</p><p>But you pay your estimated taxes to the government &#8212; and you do it four times a year.</p><div><hr></div><p>The second point:</p><h3>If you do not do this, there are penalties.</h3><p>It&#8217;s structured as a percentage penalty for inadequate payment.</p><p>For every day that you have not paid the adequate amount, there is a penalty.</p><p>Nobody wants to pay penalties when you can just get ahead of it.</p><p>There is a huge temptation to say:</p><p>&#8220;Oh, I need the cash flow now and I will deal with taxes later in April when it&#8217;s the tax deadline.&#8221;</p><p>I understand that temptation.</p><p>But oftentimes what I see happen&#8212;with friends, with colleagues, with people who ask me about this&#8212;is that they spend the money and do not save it.</p><p>Then April 15th comes along and they have not accounted for taxes.</p><p>And suddenly they&#8217;re stuck owing thousands of dollars in taxes plus penalties that they have not planned for.</p><p>And it sends people into an understandable panic.</p><div><hr></div><p>So here&#8217;s my advice:</p><h3>If you build this habit as soon as possible, it becomes so easy to maintain.</h3><p>What I did when I first started working for myself, before I had incorporated my business and had separate checking and savings accounts, is I opened a separate savings account in my bank.</p><p>I put 30% of everything that I made straight into that savings account.</p><p>And I pretended like it didn&#8217;t exist.</p><p>I didn&#8217;t spend it.</p><p>When the tax deadlines came up for that quarter, I would work with my accountant to figure out what I needed to pay.</p><p>I would pay my tax estimates, and I would keep the rest of that 30% sitting in the savings account.</p><p>At the end of the year, if there was any leftover, I used that to fund retirement accounts&#8212;because you&#8217;re also still on the hook to figure those out for yourself as well.</p><p>It made such a big difference to just put a set percentage away directly into that savings account and pretend that it didn&#8217;t exist.</p><p>I never spent it.</p><p>And in all eight years that I&#8217;ve worked for myself, I have never owed taxes.</p><p>I&#8217;ve actually gotten refunds most years&#8212;small refunds, but still a refund&#8212;because I paid my taxes throughout the year.</p><p>I have never come into tax season in April with a huge surprise tax bill that I did not know how to pay.</p><p>And it has probably saved my business.</p><p>It has definitely saved me thousands of dollars, and many hours of therapy and panic and anxiety.</p><div><hr></div><p>So if I&#8217;m going to give anybody a piece of advice when they&#8217;re first starting, it is this:</p><h3>Please, please, please pay your estimated taxes every single time.</h3><p>Do not wait.<br>Do not say you&#8217;re going to figure it out later.</p><p>It will be the one thing that can really set your business apart from a sustainability perspective and allow you to keep working for yourself in the long term.</p><p>So please save this.</p><p>Share it with a friend who you know is thinking about going freelance or is in the middle of it.</p><p>You can always start paying your estimated taxes and start saving for it.</p><p>It&#8217;s tax season, so pass this advice along.</p><p>It is the unsexy parts of working for yourself that make the biggest difference.</p><p>That&#8217;s what I want to share it with more people. Because it&#8217;s something that helped me tremendously, and I want to make sure that as many people as possible can get that same help.</p><p>I appreciate that someone gave it to me.</p><p>So I want to pay it forward.</p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://aspiringrichwineaunt.khrodgers.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe now&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://aspiringrichwineaunt.khrodgers.com/subscribe?"><span>Subscribe now</span></a></p><div><hr></div><p><em>Exit Interview is the honest debrief on work, power, and culture. I'm Kathleen&#8212;I've spent 15 years working in entertainment, advocacy, and strategy, and the past eight building a business on my own terms. This is where I say the quiet part out loud: how power actually moves, how careers really evolve, and what I've learned since stepping off the corporate ladder.</em></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Introducing the Exit Interview Podcast: The Exit That Changed My Career]]></title><description><![CDATA[Listen now | Why what was supposed to be a three-month stopgap became the best decision I ever made &#8212; and why I&#8217;m sharing everything I&#8217;ve learned.]]></description><link>https://aspiringrichwineaunt.khrodgers.com/p/introducing-the-exit-interview-podcast</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://aspiringrichwineaunt.khrodgers.com/p/introducing-the-exit-interview-podcast</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Kathleen Rodgers]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 16 Feb 2026 21:54:49 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/188189073/022e5db76c4febddc4bc1937356bdb17.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi, everyone.</p><p>My name is Kathleen, and I have spent 15 years working in the entertainment, marketing, and impact sectors. The past eight years of that, I&#8217;ve spent working for myself and running my own business.</p><p>I started this Substack (and this subsequent Substack podcast) to help pass along the hard-earned insights and lessons I&#8217;ve learned along the way.</p><p>When I started working for myself eight years ago, I didn&#8217;t really know anyone who was doing it yet. I was 28, almost 29 at the time, was leaving a really toxic work environment and decided to try my hand at freelancing to see if it could buy me a little bit more time to find the next right job.</p><p>And within six months, I was making more than I had before. I doubled revenue year over year for the first four to five years. And I ended up working for myself longer than I ever planned to from the from the get go.</p><p><strong>I what I had planned to be a three to six month stopgap turned into the best career decision I&#8217;ve ever made.</strong></p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://aspiringrichwineaunt.khrodgers.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe now&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://aspiringrichwineaunt.khrodgers.com/subscribe?"><span>Subscribe now</span></a></p><p>I am now in my mid to late 30s and I have so many friends that are facing their own career fork in the road decisions. So many millennials who have spent their careers climbing the corporate ladder, doing all of the things we were told to do to get ahead and finding themselves up against a glass ceiling of possibility due to the current economic realities, the looming threats of AI, the contracting and consolidation of wealth and power to the very few hands at the top, the lack of corporate turnover in terms of leadership and a whole number of factors that leave us burnt out, overwhelmed, overworked and unsatisfied.</p><p>So many people are thinking about what it looks like to take on consulting projects or work for themselves, and I personally love it because I think taking your career and your work into your own hands and stepping into that level of empowerment is one of the best decisions you can make for yourself. I also know that it&#8217;s risky&#8212;when I did it I did not have kids, I was not married, I had a roommate. My degree of responsibility was a little bit different than what a lot of people are considering now, and my hope and my goal is that some of this content can help de-risk the decision.</p><p>That it can help make you feel a little bit more comfortable, a little bit more secure in how to put the pieces together and structure moving forward.</p><p>The reality is that working for yourself, yes, it comes with a lot of freedom. I&#8217;ve done many a work days abroad and on trips that I wouldn&#8217;t have been able to otherwise.</p><p>But it also means doing every part of running a business.</p><p>It means paying taxes.<br>It means figuring out retirement and health insurance.<br>It means planning ahead.<br>It means forecasting.<br>It means business development.<br>Etc.</p><p>And that can that can be overwhelming.</p><p>And so many people are used to their companies handling so many of the logistics and back end systems that make a business run and just being responsible for doing their particular job function. And suddenly you&#8217;re facing having to do a lot more.</p><p>So my whole goal with this Substack and with this podcast is to share some of the lessons and insights I&#8217;ve learned along the way. Probably share some stories from people that are walking through it right now or have navigated it differently or in different industries than I have. </p><p>And to use it as a space to reflect on what it means to rethink work in this current moment when we&#8217;re all facing such big looming questions about our futures and the future of work in general.</p><p>I also want to share the business lessons and insights I learned from working in an industry&#8212;entertainment and culture and impact&#8212;that have tremendous impact on the world and in the way that we understand things.</p><p>So this podcast, though not really a traditional podcast, more of a place to have conversations from another human being, is where I hope to do that.</p><p>So thank you for listening, for coming along to this somewhat crazy experiment that I&#8217;m running as someone who doesn&#8217;t like being in the spotlight. But I do really want to help people navigate these really big looming questions and make it seem a little less scary, a little less overwhelming, from the perspective of someone who&#8217;s done it for almost a decade.</p><p>So thank you for listening to <em>Exit Interview</em>, where we get honest about the realities of work and power and culture and have some of the conversations you can only have when you walk out the door.</p><p>I&#8217;m Kathleen, and thank you so much for listening along!</p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://aspiringrichwineaunt.khrodgers.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe now&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://aspiringrichwineaunt.khrodgers.com/subscribe?"><span>Subscribe now</span></a></p><div><hr></div><p><em>Exit Interview is the honest debrief on work, power, and culture. I'm Kathleen&#8212;I've spent 15 years working in entertainment, advocacy, and strategy, and the past eight building a business on my own terms. This is where I say the quiet part out loud: how power actually moves, how careers really evolve, and what I've learned since stepping off the corporate ladder.</em></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[I Thought I Was Watching a Hockey Romance. I Ended Up With a Business Case Study.]]></title><description><![CDATA[A Valentine's Day essay on Heated Rivalry and the business consequences of underestimating romance.]]></description><link>https://aspiringrichwineaunt.khrodgers.com/p/heated-rivalry-business-romance</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://aspiringrichwineaunt.khrodgers.com/p/heated-rivalry-business-romance</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Kathleen Rodgers]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 14 Feb 2026 17:24:49 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!ev8n!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F7f9d0f7c-b24b-4b45-9ed0-fd3610996904_6000x3390.jpeg" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" 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Women dissecting scenes like they&#8217;re case law. Professional athletes coming out and naming the show as part of what made them feel ready.</p><p>That kind of cultural saturation doesn&#8217;t happen by accident.</p><p>A couple of Saturdays ago, I finally watched <em>Heated Rivalry</em>. All six episodes in one sitting. Downloaded the book immediately after. Read that in a day too. Then, yes, watched it again.</p><p>What struck me almost as much as the show itself was the scale of the reaction around it. And not just in an algorithm-boosted way. It was omnipresent because people actually cared and talked about it.</p><p>No paid marketing campaign can manufacture that. You can't buy genuine cultural saturation&#8212;you have to earn it.</p><p>And I can&#8217;t stop thinking about why a low-budget Canadian queer hockey romance became one of the most talked-about shows of the year, launched its stars into superstardom overnight&#8212;and what that says about who decides what gets made.</p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://aspiringrichwineaunt.khrodgers.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe now&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://aspiringrichwineaunt.khrodgers.com/subscribe?"><span>Subscribe now</span></a></p><h2>The Numbers We Keep Ignoring</h2><p>Romance is the highest-selling book genre in the world. It has been for years. BookTok has only accelerated that reality&#8212;backlists resurrected overnight, authors selling millions because readers filmed themselves crying over a single chapter.</p><p>The audience is massive. It&#8217;s loyal. It mobilizes.</p><p>And yet in film and television, romance still gets treated like it&#8217;s slightly unserious. A little indulgent. A little &#8220;for women.&#8221; We&#8217;ll spend hundreds of millions of dollars on another action franchise without blinking. But a romance&#8212;especially a queer one, especially an explicit one&#8212;still has to justify its existence in a way other genres don&#8217;t.</p><p>That disconnect isn&#8217;t about market size. It&#8217;s about hierarchy.</p><h2>The Decision That Made the Difference</h2><p>What&#8217;s most interesting about <em>Heated Rivalry</em> is that it didn&#8217;t try to make itself more acceptable.</p><p>Jacob Tierney could have diluted the intimacy. He could have chased celebrity casting to inflate the optics. He could have softened the emotional thesis in pursuit of &#8220;broader appeal.&#8221;</p><p>Instead, he made a specific choice: honor the book. Honor the audience that already existed. Trust that if you build something emotionally honest enough, the right people will show up. In fact, he walked away from bigger deals and bigger dollars to make it happen.</p><p>That's not a creative gamble. That's market intelligence.</p><p>The show didn&#8217;t apologize for being a romance. It didn&#8217;t treat desire like something that needed to be delayed or disguised. It took longing and vulnerability seriously instead of winking at them.</p><p>And audiences rewarded that conviction.</p><h2>What Actually Cuts Through</h2><p>Romance works because it&#8217;s about risk. About wanting someone. About choosing and being chosen. These aren&#8217;t trivial themes just because they&#8217;re often centered around women.</p><p>In fact, the reason they&#8217;ve been systematically undervalued is <em>because</em> they&#8217;re centered around women.</p><p>Hollywood keeps saying it wants broad appeal. But the things that actually scale are often the ones that refuse to dilute themselves. Specificity isn&#8217;t the opposite of reach&#8212;sometimes it&#8217;s the only path to it.</p><p>This is basic marketing strategy: know your audience. Build for them specifically. That specificity is what creates resonance. And resonance is what spreads. When you try to appeal to everyone, you end up mattering to no one. When you build something that a specific audience cares deeply about, that&#8217;s when you break through.</p><p>Queer stories get dismissed as 'niche' the same way romance gets dismissed as 'for women'&#8212;as if desire, intimacy, and love are somehow narrow concerns. <em>Heated Rivalry</em> proved what should have been obvious: universal themes don't require universal characters. They require emotional honesty.</p><p><em>Heated Rivalry</em> didn&#8217;t become culturally omnipresent because it tried to be for everyone. It became omnipresent because it was uncompromising about who it was for&#8212;and that specificity gave people something to care about.</p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!UcWl!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F7a762dd5-058b-41f7-b9e7-cd7c97c4fc9b_1600x1064.jpeg" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!UcWl!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F7a762dd5-058b-41f7-b9e7-cd7c97c4fc9b_1600x1064.jpeg 424w, 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But because it&#8217;s culturally coded as feminine&#8212;because it centers intimacy instead of spectacle&#8212;it has historically received less capital, less prestige, less institutional confidence.</p><p>That&#8217;s not a market failure. It&#8217;s a power structure. </p><p>Institutional caution doesn't protect you from risk&#8212;it just ensures someone else captures the upside while you're still deliberating.</p><p>And when you consistently undervalue what women love, you don&#8217;t just reveal a bias. You reveal a structural miscalculation.</p><p>The lesson here isn&#8217;t that romance works (we know it does). The lesson is that audiences know what they want&#8212;and gatekeepers keep second-guessing them.</p><p>There&#8217;s been more written about this show in the past few months than I&#8217;ve seen about almost anything in my 15 years working in entertainment. People are analyzing the chemistry, the soundtrack, why straight women love watching desire without misogyny, what it means for queer representation. All of that matters. The cultural impact is real&#8212;I&#8217;d bet money that if someone stood on the ice after winning the Stanley Cup this year and kissed their boyfriend, the arena would erupt.</p><p>But this is a business newsletter. So what I keep coming back to is this: <em>Heated Rivalry</em> is a case study about who gets to decide what&#8217;s valuable, what&#8217;s serious, what deserves investment.</p><p>Eventually, the market corrects you.</p><p>Whether Hollywood learns from the correction is a different story.</p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://aspiringrichwineaunt.khrodgers.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe now&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://aspiringrichwineaunt.khrodgers.com/subscribe?"><span>Subscribe now</span></a></p><div><hr></div><p><em>Exit Interview is the honest debrief on work, power, and culture. I'm Kathleen&#8212;I've spent 15 years working in entertainment, advocacy, and strategy, and the past eight building a business on my own terms. This is where I say the quiet part out loud: how power actually moves, how careers really evolve, and what I've learned since stepping off the corporate ladder.</em></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Someone Asked Me If Consulting Is a Good Idea — Here’s What I Told Her]]></title><description><![CDATA[A clear, grounded way to think about consulting when you want more autonomy and ownership&#8212;but need to understand how stability, scope, and responsibility actually work.]]></description><link>https://aspiringrichwineaunt.khrodgers.com/p/someone-asked-me-if-consulting-is</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://aspiringrichwineaunt.khrodgers.com/p/someone-asked-me-if-consulting-is</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Kathleen Rodgers]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 31 Jan 2026 19:00:49 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/557c801e-6502-45b9-9359-7619fc836d18_4167x4587.jpeg" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In the past week, I&#8217;ve had the same conversation three times with three friends from three different industries. They have all asked me the same question:</p><p>Each time, it starts with something like:<br><em>&#8220;I don&#8217;t know what to do next.&#8221;</em></p><p>And then, a beat later:<br><em>&#8220;I&#8217;m thinking about taking on consulting projects&#8230; but I don&#8217;t even know what that really means.&#8221;</em></p><p>One of those conversations was with a close friend who&#8217;s in the middle of transitioning out of her current job. She&#8217;s smart, respected in her field, and far enough into her career that she knows she&#8217;s good at what she does. She&#8217;s been looking at new corporate roles, but everything feels like a lateral move at best, and a step backward at worst.</p><p>What she wants isn&#8217;t just a paycheck. She wants what most of my millennial peers want from work in their mid-to-late 30s: respect, autonomy, and ownership over her work. A sense that there&#8217;s room to grow instead of a ceiling she&#8217;s already pressed up against.</p><p>Consulting feels like it could offer all of that.<br>But it also feels overwhelming.</p><p>What if I can&#8217;t sign any clients?<br>What if I put myself out there and fail?<br>How do I even structure projects?<br>How do I build any sense of stability when nothing is guaranteed?</p><p>These are the questions that actually keep people up at night. Not &#8220;how do I freelance,&#8221; but <em>how do I not screw this up?</em></p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://aspiringrichwineaunt.khrodgers.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe now&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://aspiringrichwineaunt.khrodgers.com/subscribe?"><span>Subscribe now</span></a></p><h3>What&#8217;s actually underneath this question?</h3><p>Here&#8217;s the thing I&#8217;ve noticed across all of these conversations:<br>The fear isn&#8217;t really about consulting.</p><p>It&#8217;s about wrapping your brain around responsibility when suddenly the edges of the container are gone.</p><p>When you&#8217;re traditionally employed, a lot of stability is handled for you by default. Someone else decides how work is scoped. Someone else defines your role. Someone else sets pay structures, handles payroll, withholds taxes, offers benefits, and absorbs risk.</p><p>When you consider consulting, all of that suddenly moves onto your plate.</p><p>And if you&#8217;re someone who&#8217;s used to being very good at your job, but has never had to play every business role at once, that shift can feel paralyzing.</p><h3>So what does consulting actually look like?</h3><p>When I talk through this with friends, I&#8217;m careful not to romanticize it.</p><p>Consulting is not freedom without responsibility.<br>It&#8217;s not vibes and pay days and magically &#8220;figuring it out&#8221; from a Parisian cafe.</p><p>Consulting is taking your existing expertise and deciding intentionally how it&#8217;s packaged, sold, and protected.</p><p>You still have deadlines. You still answer to clients. You still need to be clear about expectations. But you gain something important in return: control over scope, who you work with, and how your work fits into your life.</p><p>Here&#8217;s the thing that I always emphasize: control doesn&#8217;t come from hustle, it comes from structure.</p><h3>Here&#8217;s where things usually start to click:</h3><p>In every one of these conversations, the moment things shift is when I stop talking in abstractions and start talking concretely.</p><p>I walk through how I scope projects.<br>I explain why I price the way I do.<br>I show them examples of statements of work I&#8217;ve used.<br>I talk through how I built stability <em>before</em> I felt confident.</p><p>By no means is my way the only way, but I have found that seeing a real path forward quiets the panic.</p><p>At this stage, people usually need orientation just as much as motivation.</p><h3>One thing to do if you&#8217;re spiraling about this</h3><p>If you&#8217;re lying awake wondering whether consulting is a viable option&#8212;or whether you&#8217;re wildly underprepared&#8212;here&#8217;s the one thing I&#8217;d focus on first:</p><p><strong>Break it down into tangible steps. Stop thinking about consulting as a huge leap, and start thinking about it as a container to explore new possibilities.</strong></p><p>Your job isn&#8217;t to predict the next five years.<br>Your job is to define <em>one</em> service offering clearly enough that:</p><ul><li><p>You can clearly articulate what the deliverables are (what a client will get)</p></li><li><p>You can clearly communicate the value to a client (how it will accomplish their goals)</p></li><li><p>You can build clear timelines and expectations (what is required to get there)</p></li></ul><p>That&#8217;s it.</p><p>I have found that stability comes from building a solid structure that you can repeat. This doesn&#8217;t mean you can&#8217;t revisit your offering down the line, but the goal is to find your starting point. </p><div><hr></div><p><em>I&#8217;ve been running my own consulting business for eight years. As more friends and peers start to consider consulting, I wanted a place to share what I&#8217;ve learned and help make the process feel less overwhelming for people who are trying to figure out their next step.</em></p><div><hr></div><div class="subscription-widget-wrap-editor" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://aspiringrichwineaunt.khrodgers.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe&quot;,&quot;language&quot;:&quot;en&quot;}" data-component-name="SubscribeWidgetToDOM"><div class="subscription-widget show-subscribe"><div class="preamble"><p class="cta-caption"></p></div><form class="subscription-widget-subscribe"><input type="email" class="email-input" name="email" placeholder="Type your email&#8230;" tabindex="-1"><input type="submit" class="button primary" value="Subscribe"><div class="fake-input-wrapper"><div class="fake-input"></div><div class="fake-button"></div></div></form></div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Why I Stopped Waiting for Permission]]></title><description><![CDATA[The millennial career crisis is real. Here's what I did about it &#8212; and what I've learned in eight years of working for myself.]]></description><link>https://aspiringrichwineaunt.khrodgers.com/p/welcome-why-im-building-your-freelance</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://aspiringrichwineaunt.khrodgers.com/p/welcome-why-im-building-your-freelance</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Kathleen Rodgers]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 25 Jan 2026 21:32:47 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!wYKR!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F0545ce71-df1d-49c4-a71d-7908341f50b4_600x600.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In 2018, I quit my job without another one lined up.</p><p>I had been working in a toxic environment where I was constantly undermined, and the stress was impacting every area of my life. One day, while my mom was visiting, I said, &#8220;By the time you leave, I need to have an exit strategy.&#8221; By the end of that week, I walked away from my job&#8212;no backup plan, just the conviction that it wasn&#8217;t worth sacrificing my wellbeing for a paycheck.</p><p>A friend asked if I&#8217;d ever considered freelancing. I hadn&#8217;t. But I thought it might buy me some time while I looked for the <em>right</em> job&#8212;not just the <em>next</em> job.</p><p>Within six months, I was doing better than I had at my previous full-time job. Eight years later, I&#8217;ve never looked back.</p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://aspiringrichwineaunt.khrodgers.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe now&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://aspiringrichwineaunt.khrodgers.com/subscribe?"><span>Subscribe now</span></a></p><h3><strong>But here&#8217;s what I didn&#8217;t know then</strong></h3><p>I wasn&#8217;t just leaving a bad situation. I was opting out of a system that&#8217;s fundamentally broken for our generation (proud millennial over here).</p><p>We did everything &#8220;right.&#8221; We went to college. We climbed the corporate ladder. We waited our turn for promotions. We were loyal. We worked late. We produced more value year after year.</p><p>And what did we get?</p><ul><li><p>Leadership pipelines that never seem to open up</p></li><li><p>&#8220;10 years experience required&#8221; for director positions that should be within reach</p></li><li><p>2% raises while producing 30% more output</p></li><li><p>Layoffs after loyalty</p></li><li><p>&#8220;Restructuring&#8221; that eliminates upward mobility</p></li><li><p>The constant realization that the financial security we were promised isn&#8217;t coming</p></li><li><p>Rapidly increasing cost of living coupled with stagnating wages</p></li></ul><p>The goalpost keeps moving. The system that worked for our parents doesn&#8217;t work for us. And somewhere along the way, many of us realized: <strong>we&#8217;re on our own.</strong></p><h2><strong>The millennial work crisis no one&#8217;s talking about</strong></h2><p>I&#8217;m 36 years old. Most of my friends are in their mid-30s to early 40s. And nearly all of them are stuck.</p><p>Not because they&#8217;re not talented. Not because they&#8217;re not working hard. But because the corporate ladder they&#8217;ve been climbing leads nowhere.</p><p>They&#8217;re too senior to be entry-level, but there&#8217;s no clear path to leadership. They&#8217;re overqualified and underpaid. They&#8217;re exhausted and burnt out from doing the work of three people after &#8220;cost-cutting measures.&#8221; They&#8217;re watching their retirement timelines slip further away despite doing everything they were told to do.</p><p>And increasingly, I find a lot of my friends asking me: <em>&#8220;How did you do it? How did you build something stable working for yourself?&#8221;</em></p><p>That&#8217;s why I&#8217;m building this newsletter.</p><h2><strong>This isn&#8217;t just about freelancing tips</strong></h2><p>Don&#8217;t get me wrong&#8212;I&#8217;ll teach you the systems. How to structure your business legally. How to handle taxes so you don&#8217;t get blindsided. How to set rates that actually reflect your worth. How to protect yourself with contracts. How to find clients and build sustainable income.</p><p>I&#8217;ve spent eight years figuring this out through trial and error, and I&#8217;ll share everything I wish someone had told me.</p><p><strong>Because here&#8217;s the truth: it&#8217;s not the sexy stuff that stops people from going freelance. It&#8217;s the unsexy admin, systems, and operations stuff that feels most intimidating.</strong></p><p>How do I actually pay quarterly taxes? What business structure do I need? How do I invoice professionally? What goes in a contract? How do I separate my business and personal finances? What about health insurance? Retirement?</p><p>These are the questions that keep people trapped in jobs they&#8217;ve outgrown. Not because they can&#8217;t do the work&#8212;but because no one knows how to manage the backend infrastructure that their companies have always handled.</p><p><strong>That&#8217;s what I&#8217;m here for.</strong></p><p>But this is also about something bigger than invoicing templates and tax strategies.</p><p><strong>This is about economic autonomy for a generation that was sold a bill of goods that doesn&#8217;t exist anymore.</strong></p><p>This is about recognizing that the system is broken&#8212;and deciding to build our own instead.</p><p>This is about finally having the freedom to:</p><ul><li><p>Set your own rates based on your actual value</p></li><li><p>Choose who you work with</p></li><li><p>Design your own schedule</p></li><li><p>Build wealth on your own terms</p></li><li><p>Never write another performance review</p></li><li><p>Answer to yourself</p></li></ul><h2><strong>What </strong><em><strong>Work, Reimagined</strong></em><strong> actually is</strong></h2><p>Think of this as part systems manual, part friend you&#8217;d call for advice&#8212;one who has been doing this for eight years and isn&#8217;t going to sugarcoat it.</p><p>Every week I'll write about the practical systems, honest numbers, and real frameworks that make working for yourself sustainable. Not the Instagram highlight reel version. The actual version.</p><p><strong>This isn&#8217;t toxic positivity &#8220;follow your dreams&#8221; nonsense.</strong> I&#8217;ll be honest about how hard it is. But I&#8217;ll also show you it&#8217;s possible and how to actually do it.</p><p>Right now, everything is free. As this grows, I&#8217;ll introduce a paid tier with deeper resources, template libraries, and more intensive support. But my commitment is to make the core knowledge accessible to everyone who needs it.</p><h2><strong>Why I&#8217;m doing this now</strong></h2><p>Because I&#8217;m watching my friends hit the same wall I hit in 2018.</p><p>Because the advice our parents give us (and that worked for them) doesn&#8217;t work anymore.</p><p>Because job security is a myth and we need to build our own.</p><p>Because someone needs to say out loud: <strong>You&#8217;re not failing. The system failed you. And here&#8217;s how to build something better.</strong></p><h2><strong>If you&#8217;re here, you&#8217;re in the right place</strong></h2><p>Whether you&#8217;re:</p><ul><li><p>Trapped in a corporate job wondering if there&#8217;s another way</p></li><li><p>Already freelancing but struggling to make it sustainable</p></li><li><p>Side-hustling and trying to figure out if you can go full-time</p></li><li><p>Just exhausted by a system that keeps moving the goalpost</p></li><li><p>Intimidated by all the backend logistics and wondering where to start</p></li></ul><p><strong>You&#8217;re not alone. And I&#8217;ve got you.</strong></p><p>If any of that sounds familiar &#8212; you're exactly who I'm writing for. Subscribe and read along. This is just the beginning.</p><p>&#8212;Kathleen</p><div><hr></div><p><strong>P.S.</strong> I&#8217;m also on Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/aspiringrichwineaunt">@aspiringrichwineaunt</a>. Come say hi!</p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://aspiringrichwineaunt.khrodgers.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe now&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://aspiringrichwineaunt.khrodgers.com/subscribe?"><span>Subscribe now</span></a></p><p></p>]]></content:encoded></item></channel></rss>